Alissa K. Oetman
With a deeply ingrained appreciation of the life-altering nature of divorce, custody disputes, and other family law matters, Alissa Oetman serves as a steady hand, guiding light, and unwavering ally for clients facing some of the biggest challenges of their lives.
Providing clarity, context, and comfort in equal measure, Alissa guides individuals through the stressful and unfamiliar processes involved when a marriage ends, when parents are at odds over their child’s present and future, or when other issues arise that implicate their relationships, finances, and well-being. She complements her determined advocacy and substantive knowledge with natural empathy and compassion, making her an effective attorney and a trusted advisor. With patience and respect and without legalese, Alisa ensures each client understands the legal process and what to expect, helps them define their goals, and sets a realistic, prudent course to achieve them.
Helping people through difficult circumstances has been the defining feature of Alissa’s career, even before she started practicing family law over a decade ago. A West Michigan native, Alissa worked in social services before attending law school, assisting individuals and families in Allegan struggling with homelessness and related socio-economic challenges. From this experience, she recognized the critical difference that resources, information, and support can make in the lives of those enduring traumatic times. This informs her approach to family law, and her clients reap the benefits of an attorney who understands their concerns, perspectives, and needs as much as she understands the law.
Posts by or including Alissa K. Oetman
Out With the Old, in With the New: Michigan Flips the Script for Surrogates in Family Law Rehaul
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Divorce Without Confusion: Post-Divorce Co-Parenting Tips
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Divorce Without Confusion: Life After Divorce – Updating Legal Documents and Accounts
Life after divorce isn’t just about moving on emotionally; it also requires important legal and financial updates. … Continue Reading
Divorce Without Confusion: Understanding Child Custody in Michigan – What the Court Considers
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Divorce Without Confusion: Dividing Assets and Debts in a Michigan Divorce
Dividing property and debts during a divorce can be just as difficult as the emotional challenges of … Continue Reading
Divorce Without Confusion: The Role of Mediation and the Friend of the Court in Michigan Divorces
Divorce doesn’t have to mean a lengthy, expensive courtroom battle. In Michigan, mediation and the Friend of … Continue Reading
Divorce Without Confusion: What To Expect at Your First Meeting With Your Divorce Attorney
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Divorce Without Confusion: Preparing for Divorce
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Does My Teenager Get a Say in Our Custody Order?
Divorce is hard on everyone, but it’s particularly difficult for kids. The shifting dynamics are challenging to … Continue Reading
Your Prenuptial Agreement Is Enforceable in Michigan – Until It Isn’t
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